Are you ready for this?
Have you realised how an entire year has passed?
We usually keep so busy – often too stressed and worried about everything – that we neglect to see how life passes by. We convince ourselves we’re fine and we’re having fun, but how many weeks of the year are we truly enjoying every day and not simply the weekends or those ‘days off’?
How many times have you found yourself going to bed stressed and waking up equally anguished?
We don’t relax because the moment we do, we most likely fall asleep.
As a person who more often than not falls asleep during movies – particularly when watching them in the comfort of a home, tucked up under a fuzzy blanket on a couch – I can unabashedly say that I can count the films I’ve seen in one go (or in their entirety) on the fingers of one hand.
Tiredness is not only physical exhaustion. It arises from not doing what you’re passionate about and what makes you feel good. Toxic relations are not only personal ones, they’re also professional and social ones.
The good thing is we usually get to choose the energy and time we devote to people and things.
The bad news is that we often make the wrong choices out of fear of disappointing others or of missing out if we say ‘no’.
But the thing about a choice is that it is ultimately a personal decision. And enriched and enlightened with another year’s worth of experiences, perhaps this time round we will manage to live more and stress less.
Merry Christmas everybody. Keep calm and enjoy the festivities.